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Sunday, April 25, 2010
Second Marking Period - Question #7
Why is it that people sometimes "like us" more when they can get something out of us? Are the Marthas good friends to Heather? Why or why not? (Page 82)
I Think This Is Because People Like That Are Users. When You Are Getting Something Out Of It Of Course Their Gonna Be Nice. You Cant Be Mean To Someone And Expect To Get Something Out Of Them. Its Just The Simple Fact That People Dont Care About Anything Unless It Is Benefitting Them.
I don't think it's so much that they "like" you more, It's the fact that they use you for all they can get out of you and then they just leave you like your nothing. I think some people are like that because they have no respect for themselves so they have to use other people to make them feel better about themselves. I think the Marthas are okay friends to Heather I guess.
People like us more when they get something out of us because they see us as an easy target, they are users, they pretend to be your friend so you do things for them. they take your credit because they cant do it on their own. Marthas are not good friends to heather because to them she will never be good enough and so they are always going to make her do something then tell her she did it wrong or not good enouth.
I think the Martha's are not good friends for heather. they dont let her be her. she has to do things in order to be their friend. It's like a gang just not vilent.
Personally, people sometimes "like us" more when they can get something out of us because the other person know's you know something about something they want to know of. People use other people because they are selfish, it's a benifit to them and in the end it doesn't neccissarily hurt them. All people know how to do is hold on, this is not a part of letting go trying to hold on to information another person carries as a resource. Especially if the other person is doing it out of hurt or in a revengeful advantage. The Marthas are not good friends to heather because they only want to befriend her to get close to the opportunity Heather was just offered at the mall.
People sometimes like us more if they can get something out of us because some people just dont know what a real friendship is. I dont think the Marthas are good friend to heather i dont think this because they treat her like crap.
People "like us more" sometimes when they get something out of it for the simple fact that they are getting somthing out of it. Somethimes its for the benifit and other times its just being self-ish!The Martha Arent good friends because they are always telling her wht to do then critisize the way she did it they make her feel like she cant do anything right.
-. I think poeple sometimes like us more when they try and get something out of us because they are selfish people and there obviously not happy with there lifes. -.no I dont think the marthas are good friends to heather because they are constantly making her do all their dirty work and making a fool of her.
people like us more when they can get stuff out of us because then we are volnerbal...or whatever and thwey can get us to do anything. the person who's getting used usually just wants to fit in with a group of people and is willing to do anything for them. i dont think the martha's are good frinds to heather because they use her and make her do bad things for them and i think they made her not be frineds with martha anymore in o0rder to be in there click.
People "like us better" when they can get something out of us because they are selfish and they only give out their friendship for their benefit. The Marthas aren't good friends to Heather because their friendship is conditonal, which doesn't make it friendship at all...
I Think This Is Because People Like That Are Users. When You Are Getting Something Out Of It Of Course Their Gonna Be Nice. You Cant Be Mean To Someone And Expect To Get Something Out Of Them. Its Just The Simple Fact That People Dont Care About Anything Unless It Is Benefitting Them.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's so much that they "like" you more, It's the fact that they use you for all they can get out of you and then they just leave you like your nothing. I think some people are like that because they have no respect for themselves so they have to use other people to make them feel better about themselves. I think the Marthas are okay friends to Heather I guess.
ReplyDeletePeople like us more when they get something out of us because they see us as an easy target, they are users, they pretend to be your friend so you do things for them. they take your credit because they cant do it on their own. Marthas are not good friends to heather because to them she will never be good enough and so they are always going to make her do something then tell her she did it wrong or not good enouth.
ReplyDeleteI think the Martha's are not good friends for heather. they dont let her be her. she has to do things in order to be their friend. It's like a gang just not vilent.
ReplyDeletePersonally, people sometimes "like us" more when they can get something out of us because the other person know's you know something about something they want to know of. People use other people because they are selfish, it's a benifit to them and in the end it doesn't neccissarily hurt them. All people know how to do is hold on, this is not a part of letting go trying to hold on to information another person carries as a resource. Especially if the other person is doing it out of hurt or in a revengeful advantage. The Marthas are not good friends to heather because they only want to befriend her to get close to the opportunity Heather was just offered at the mall.
ReplyDeletePeople sometimes like us more if they can get something out of us because some people just dont know what a real friendship is. I dont think the Marthas are good friend to heather i dont think this because they treat her like crap.
ReplyDeletePeople "like us more" sometimes when they get something out of it for the simple fact that they are getting somthing out of it. Somethimes its for the benifit and other times its just being self-ish!The Martha Arent good friends because they are always telling her wht to do then critisize the way she did it they make her feel like she cant do anything right.
ReplyDelete-. I think poeple sometimes like us more when they try and get something out of us because they are selfish people and there obviously not happy with there lifes.
ReplyDelete-.no I dont think the marthas are good friends to heather because they are constantly making her do all their dirty work and making a fool of her.
people like us more when they can get stuff out of us because then we are volnerbal...or whatever and thwey can get us to do anything. the person who's getting used usually just wants to fit in with a group of people and is willing to do anything for them.
ReplyDeletei dont think the martha's are good frinds to heather because they use her and make her do bad things for them and i think they made her not be frineds with martha anymore in o0rder to be in there click.
People "like us better" when they can get something out of us because they are selfish and they only give out their friendship for their benefit. The Marthas aren't good friends to Heather because their friendship is conditonal, which doesn't make it friendship at all...
ReplyDelete